For some of us, our Twin Flame is yet unknown to us, out there in the ethers somewhere, married to someone else, or has walked out on us. We are told to work on our "issues" to bring them back or reconnect, and while that is part of the story, it is not all of it. We all have these issues, which are fear-based and born of past experiences, and even past lives. These issues will be with us for a long time to come. They can take years to work out, even with the desire to overcome them. (When I met my Twin, I was a "walking issue", despite years of self-therapy.) The problem for the separation, is not so much our "issues", because these are fear-based and related to the ego-mind. Healing these is like trying to solve where numbers came from. Its a pointless loop. While we can learn to understand why we do certain things or where the behaviors came from, we still fall back into some semblance of them, because understanding does not make the fears go away. They just take another form (I'm talking about self-sabotage, insecurity, not-good enough, victim mentality etc etc etc). Basically, we are running scripts that are already there, in a matrix hologram. This all has already been done or written. But then, I digress.
What is the secret to permanently ridding ourselves of these issues, without focusing on them? Escaping the "matrix"? Forgiveness, but not in the way one would think. Forgiveness is what allows Love in its undiluted form to guide and lead. Forgiveness will start to erase the old script, and possibly lead your Twin back to a higher version of the script with you...but only if you surrender and allow Spirit to lead. You may have to make this decision over and over again each day...to forgive. Forgiveness that forgives the world as not being real to begin with...forgiving everyone and anyone that crosses your path, and stirs up the issues. These are your forgiveness opportunities. Let's take it higher...forgiveness, because we are ultimately all one Spirit in God, so we made all this up to begin with...to become our own gods, which can't be done. There is only oneness. Separation is the illusion...you know this, because you can communicate with your twin outside of any parameters. So, you are one with your brothers, you brought them all in (pieces of yourself) to act as a mirror, to keep you analyzing, feeling separate, wanting and needing what is in that mirror. The mirror is the hologram. It is not real. We exist as one outside the matrix, but can't see it. We forgive, because it is a hologram, we made it up, we are merely speaking the script, and it doesn't really matter, because: all things pass away in time...outside of time there is only constancy and the lack of separation or duality.
So, how do we forgive?
How do you know the forgiveness is working?
1. You will notice you don't react to certain situations the same way anymore.
2. You may experience that you are thinking something else, while different words are coming out of your mouth, seemingly on their own (the old script).
3. You may see flashing lights, colors or develop symptoms like vertigo out of nowhere, that tell you the hologram is changing...you are switching dimensions of time, as old ones collapse.
4. Time may seem to slow down or speed up, as you see images or people around you on fast forward or slow motion.
5. Circumstances begin to change over time, and work more in your favor, or some areas of life become easier.
6. Your Twin may return or you meet them, you meet a Twin Self (the one before your Twin Flame) or a significant karmic soulmate.
7. You may have already been experiencing some or all of these symptoms, because you have already been forgiving, by your desire to learn Unconditional Love.
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